The title “Loving God” has two meanings. The first declares the heart of God—for He is a loving God who loves us beyond human comprehension. The second is based upon our response to God’s love—for loving God in return is His desire from each of us. God is a Loving God The actions of God throughout time reflect His love for His creation, and His desire for a relationship with each of us. However, throughout time, mankind has sinned by choosing to reject Him, disobey Him, and vainly seek things upon earth to fulfill a void within our heart and soul—a void that He designed within us, and a void that only He can fill. “All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned, every one, to his own way.” Isaiah 53:6; “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23 “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.” 1 John 1:8 Sin has many consequences. For example, sin: Separates us from having a loving relationship with God. Isaiah 59:2 ; Romans 8:7 ; Col. 1:21 Controls the sinner. Romans 6:12 ; Romans 7:13-20 ; John 8:34 Creates darkness and an inability to see truth. Romans 1:21 ; 2 Corinthians 4:4 ; Ephesians 4:18 Hardens the heart. Romans 2:5 ; Exodus 7:13 ; Ezekiel 36:26 Causes spiritual death. James 1:14-15 ; Romans 6:23 ; Ephesians 2:1 In addition, all aspects of sin is a lie that separates us from truth in that God desires to: Develop a relationship with each of us. Rev. 3:20 ; Jer. 29:11 ; Mat. 28:20 ; James 4:8 ; Deut. 31:6 Free us from our slavery to sin. John 8:34-36 ; Rom. 6:18 ; Col. 1:13 ; Gal. 5:1 ; 1 John 1:9 Illuminate our spiritual understanding and wisdom. John 1:6-9 , 14:26 , 16:13-15 ; Eph. 1:17-18 Soften our hearts. Ezekiel 36:26 ; Eph. 4:18 ; John 12:40 Magnify our righteousness. 2 Cor. 9:10 ; Prov. 10:6-25 ; Mat. 6:31-33 ; Heb. 1:9 ; 1 Pet. 2:24 Spend eternity with us. John 5:24 , 10:28 , 14:3-4 ; 1 Pet. 1:3-4 ; 1 John 2:17 ; 2 Cor. 5:1 ; Phil. 3:20-21 God’s plan to develop a relationship with us and break the power of sin over us is for us to realize and embrace His love, His grace, and His mercy in that He will forgive us for our sins—regardless of what we have done—by believing in what His Son, Jesus Christ, did for us on the cross of Calvary. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” John 3:16-17 “But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved).” Ephesians 2:4-5 “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8 Our Response to God’s Love When one realizes God is a loving God who has provided us with a means to overcome sin and darkness—by believing in His Son—is when the power and bondage of sin begins to loosen its grip. This is when the illuminating light of Jesus begins to permeate into the darkness. This is when we begin to see the difference between Satan’s lies and God’s truths. This is also when we begin a transformation from eternal death into eternal life. There is nothing this world has to offer that will fulfill the deepest needs of our soul. Those who seek fulfillment through sex, drugs, power, wealth, fame, possessions—including attempts to obtain respect, recognition and acceptance from others—will find fulfillment transitory, short-lived, and more is needed. King Solomon—whom God appointed as the third king of Israel—had positional power and wealth that allowed him to try every type of sin “under the sun” that the world has to offer. God allowed Solomon to go on his own journey as he vainly attempted to find meaning and fulfillment in life. Eventually Solomon realized all that this world has to offer is meaningless, madness, folly, and is like “chasing after the wind.” ( Click here for an excellent study on Solomon.) God’s grace and mercy—extended to us who are not worthy—draws us towards Him. God’s grace is receiving a gift we do not deserve. God’s mercy is not receiving the punishment we deserve. God will not “beat” us into compliance and submission to His will as a tyrannical dictator. For this approach motivates by fear of punishment and not by love. Besides, pure love (God’s perfect love) and fear are mutually exclusive (they cannot coexist). As one increases the other decreases. This is why God extends His love towards us (through His Son, Jesus Christ) so that it will draw us closer to Him. “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. We love Him because He first loved us.” 1 John 4:18-19 As our love for God grows we increasingly despise the things of the world and s eek after the righteousness of Jesus. This occurs because of the Holy Spirit who: Enables us to see the darkness of Satan’s lies and the consequences. Guides us through the process of sanctification and into spiritual maturity. For more information on how God transforms us into spiritual maturity and prepares for eternity, read “Sanctification” on UniqueBibleStudies.com. “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.” 1 John 2:15-17 How to Love God Jesus declared, ‘“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 22:37-40 The expression of our love for God and others is based upon making personal free will choices that align with His will and desires for our lives. “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Romans 12:2 Jesus said, “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” John 14:15 “Whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him.” 1 John 2:5 Here are some thoughts to ponder: Attempt to identify at least one of God’s commandments that is not for our benefit and wellbeing. As we give up each “thing” that causes us to sin: o An oppressive “weight” seems to lift from our shoulders. o The associated turmoil from within is replaced by joyful freedom. o It enhances our empathetic understanding and compassion towards others who are controlled by the sin. Nothing this world has to offer compares to the indescribable joy and peace that occurs deep within our heart and soul when we obey and do things that are pleasing to God. Our love for God—because of what He has done for us—is a key motivator that foundationally supports our obedience when faced with temptations, trials and tribulations. As our love for God is magnified, our love for others also expands. o We learn to forgive others for their faults because God has forgiven us for our faults. o Our empathy, understanding and love towards others increases when we recognize: We have also acted in a similar manner. No one but God has the right to judge someone. Every time we judge, condemn, or have anger towards someone it: Does not align with God’s will. Develops an uncomfortable causticity within our heart and soul. Reflects a hardened heart. Circumvents the spiritual blessings God desires for us. The depth of God’s love and forgiveness is revealed when Jesus—as He was dying on the cross—declared, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” Luke 23:34 It is about the glory of God…AND NOT ME! Knowing God Through Love “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” 1 John 4:7- 11 Seeing God Through Love “No one has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God abides in us, and His love has been perfected in us. By this we know that we abide in Him, and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son as Savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.” 1 John 4:12-16 In the midst of all of our daily challenges we experience…it is good to know that we love, worship and serve a loving God who has plans for our eternity. “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9 “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height—to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.” Ephesians 3:14-19 All for His Glory! Harold D. Thomas Thought Provoking Questions The purpose of the questions is to facilitate a deeper understanding of the Bible, this Bible study topic, and ourselves. The questions may be answered by each reader, or used by a Bible study group leader, or church pastor. The questions should be answered or discussed after reading “Loving God.” In addition, the questions are designed to enhance learning via the determination of personal opinions and/or discovering how the lesson content relates to our personal lives. As such, no answers are provided. Questions Five consequences of sin were listed. Identify at least 3 examples that you have experienced (or someone you know has experienced) for one or more of the consequences. Six desires of God for us were listed. Identify at least 3 examples that you have experienced (or someone you know has experienced) for one or more of God’s desires for us. Two methods of motivation were described in the lesson: fear and love. Can you identify an example of how each means of motivation were employed by someone? What are some of the consequences / responses that occurs by each motivational method? The lesson states fear and love are mutually exclusive, and that as one increases the other decreases. Do you agree or disagree? The Bible states, “Do not love the world or things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” 1 John 2:15 What is meant by “love of the world?” What is meant by “things in the world?” The scripture states if someone loves the world the love of the Father is not in them. How does our flesh, lust of our eyes, and the pride of life contribute to this dire situation? Are there aspects of the world and things that are in the world that do not apply? o If yes, what is the key differentiation? o What influential role does the attitude of our heart play? Some say if we love God with all our heart, our soul and our mind we will fulfill His commandments. Do you agree or disagree? A listing of “thoughts to ponder” were provided. Are there any that relate to your personal experiences? If you were asked to prioritize the list…which one should be the most relevant/important? If you were asked to summarize this lesson in 10 words or less…what words would you use? You may do wnload a PDF version of the questions by clicking this button.
The words of Jesus Christ are in red text.
The words of Jesus are in red text.
The title “Loving God” has two meanings. The first declares the heart of God—for He is a loving God who loves us beyond human comprehension. The second is based upon our response to God’s love—for loving God in return is His desire from each of us. God is a Loving God The actions of God throughout time reflect His love for His creation, and His desire for a relationship with each of us. However, throughout time, mankind has sinned by choosing to reject Him, disobey Him, and vainly seek things upon earth to fulfill a void within our heart and soul—a void that He designed within us, and a void that only He can fill. “All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned, every one, to his own way.” Isaiah 53:6; “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23 “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.” 1 John 1:8 Sin has many consequences. For example, sin: Separates us from having a loving relationship with God. Isaiah 59:2 ; Romans 8:7 ; Col. 1:21 Controls the sinner. Romans 6:12 ; Romans 7:13-20 ; John 8:34 Creates darkness and an inability to see truth. Romans 1:21 ; 2 Corinthians 4:4 ; Ephesians 4:18 Hardens the heart. Romans 2:5 ; Exodus 7:13 ; Ezekiel 36:26 Causes spiritual death. James 1:14-15 ; Romans 6:23 ; Ephesians 2:1 In addition, all aspects of sin is a lie that separates us from truth in that God desires to: Develop a relationship with each of us. Rev. 3:20 ; Jer. 29:11 ; Mat. 28:20 ; James 4:8 ; Deut. 31:6 Free us from our slavery to sin. John 8:34-36 ; Rom. 6:18 ; Col. 1:13 ; Gal. 5:1 ; 1 John 1:9 Illuminate our spiritual understanding and wisdom. John 1:6-9 , 14:26 , 16:13-15 ; Eph. 1:17-18 Soften our hearts. Ezekiel 36:26 ; Eph. 4:18 ; John 12:40 Magnify our righteousness. 2 Cor. 9:10 ; Prov. 10:6-25 ; Mat. 6:31-33 ; Heb. 1:9 ; 1 Pet. 2:24 Spend eternity with us. John 5:24 , 10:28 , 14:3-4 ; 1 Pet. 1:3-4 ; 1 John 2:17 ; 2 Cor. 5:1 ; Phil. 3:20-21 God’s plan to develop a relationship with us and break the power of sin over us is for us to realize and embrace His love, His grace, and His mercy in that He will forgive us for our sins—regardless of what we have done—by believing in what His Son, Jesus Christ, did for us on the cross of Calvary. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” John 3:16-17 “But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved).” Ephesians 2:4-5 “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8 Our Response to God’s Love When one realizes God is a loving God who has provided us with a means to overcome sin and darkness—by believing in His Son—is when the power and bondage of sin begins to loosen its grip. This is when the illuminating light of Jesus begins to permeate into the darkness. This is when we begin to see the difference between Satan’s lies and God’s truths. This is also when we begin a transformation from eternal death into eternal life. There is nothing this world has to offer that will fulfill the deepest needs of our soul. Those who seek fulfillment through sex, drugs, power, wealth, fame, possessions—including attempts to obtain respect, recognition and acceptance from others—will find fulfillment transitory, short-lived, and more is needed. King Solomon—whom God appointed as the third king of Israel—had positional power and wealth that allowed him to try every type of sin “under the sun” that the world has to offer. God allowed Solomon to go on his own journey as he vainly attempted to find meaning and fulfillment in life. Eventually Solomon realized all that this world has to offer is meaningless, madness, folly, and is like “chasing after the wind.” ( Click here for an excellent study on Solomon.) God’s grace and mercy—extended to us who are not worthy—draws us towards Him. God’s grace is receiving a gift we do not deserve. God’s mercy is not receiving the punishment we deserve. God will not “beat” us into compliance and submission to His will as a tyrannical dictator. For this approach motivates by fear of punishment and not by love. Besides, pure love (God’s perfect love) and fear are mutually exclusive (they cannot coexist). As one increases the other decreases. This is why God extends His love towards us (through His Son, Jesus Christ) so that it will draw us closer to Him. “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. We love Him because He first loved us.” 1 John 4:18-19 As our love for God grows we increasingly despise the things of the world and seek after the righteousness of Jesus. This occurs because of the Holy Spirit who: Enables us to see the darkness of Satan’s lies and the consequences. Guides us through the process of sanc tification and into spiritual maturity. For more information on how God transforms us into spiritual maturity and prepares for eternity, read “Sanctification” on UniqueBibleStudies.com. “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.” 1 John 2:15-17 How to Love God Jesus declared, ‘“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 22:37-40 The expression of our love for God and others is based upon making personal free will choices that align with His will and desires for our lives. “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Romans 12:2 Jesus said, “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” John 14:15 “Whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him.” 1 John 2:5 Here are some thoughts to ponder: Attempt to identify at least one of God’s commandments that is not for our benefit and wellbeing. As we give up each “thing” that causes us to sin: o An oppressive “weight” seems to lift from our shoulders. o The associated turmoil from within is replaced by joyful freedom. o It enhances our empathetic understanding and compassion towards others who are controlled by the sin. Nothing this world has to offer compares to the indescribable joy and peace that occurs deep within our heart and soul when we obey and do things that are pleasing to God. Our love for God—because of what He has done for us—is a key motivator that foundationally supports our obedience when faced with temptations, trials and tribulations. As our love for God is magnified, our love for others also expands. o We learn to forgive others for their faults because God has forgiven us for our faults. o Our empathy, understanding and love towards others increases when we recognize: We have also acted in a similar manner. No one but God has the right to judge someone. Every time we judge, condemn, or have anger towards someone it: Does not align with God’s will. Develops an uncomfortable causticity within our heart and soul. Reflects a hardened heart. Circumvents the spiritual blessings God desires for us. The depth of God’s love and forgiveness is revealed when Jesus—as He was dying on the cross—declared, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” Luke 23:34 It is about the glory of God…AND NOT ME! Knowing God Through Love “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” 1 John 4:7-11 Seeing God Through Love “No one has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God abides in us, and His love has been perfected in us. By this we know that we abide in Him, and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son as Savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.” 1 John 4:12-16 In the midst of all of our daily challenges we experience…it is good to know that we love, worship and serve a loving God who has plans for our eternity. “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9 “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height—to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.” Ephesians 3:14-19 All for His Glory! Harold D. Thomas Thought Provoking Questions The purpose of the questions is to facilitate a deeper understanding of the Bible, this Bible study topic, and ourselves. The questions may be answered by each reader, or used by a Bible study group leader, or church pastor. The questions should be answered or discussed after reading “Loving God.” In addition, the questions are designed to enhance learning via the determination of personal opinions and/or discovering how the lesson content relates to our personal lives. As such, no answers are provided. Questions Five consequences of sin were listed. Identify at least 3 examples that you have experienced (or someone you know has experienced) for one or more of the consequences. Six desires of God for us were listed. Identify at least 3 examples that you have experienced (or someone you know has experienced) for one or more of God’s desires for us. Two methods of motivation were described in the lesson: fear and love. Can you identify an example of how each means of motivation were employed by someone? What are some of the consequences / responses that occurs by each motivational method? The lesson states fear and love are mutually exclusive, and that as one increases the other decreases. Do you agree or disagree? The Bible states, “Do not love the world or things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” 1 John 2:15 What is meant by “love of the world?” What is meant by “things in the world?” The scripture states if someone loves the world the love of the Father is not in them. How does our flesh, lust of our eyes, and the pride of life contribute to this dire situation? Are there aspects of the world and things that are in the world that do not apply? o If yes, what is the key differentiation? o What influential role does the attitude of our heart play? Some say if we love God with all our heart, our soul and our mind we will fulfill His commandments. Do you agree or disagree? A listing of “thoughts to ponder” were provided. Are there any that relate to your personal experiences? If you were asked to prioritize the list…which one should be the most relevant/important? If you were asked to summarize this lesson in 10 words or less…what words would you use? You may download a P DF version of the questions by clicking on this button.